The gift of Forgiveness

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As a mom, I have plenty to feel guilty about. I feel guilty for not spending enough time with my kids, guilty for not volunteering at the school enough, guilty for not keeping the house spotless, guilty for not cooking big nutritious meals, guilty guilty guilty. It’s stressful carrying that weight on my shoulders.

Recently, while at a restaurant with a friend, I sat and just soaked in the kid free moment. I enjoyed my salad and didn’t think twice about downing my tea. I had no little ones to feed or care for. Then BAM out of no where I see kids crying in the play area.

There is some unwritten code for moms. Once you are a mom, you are bonded into some unwritten club. You feel for other moms when they are stressed. You know the pain and frustration of moms who have kids near your kids ages.

So there I was, relaxed one minute, then heart racing the next as I watch so much judgement unfold. I am not sure what happened in the play area, except there were kids in tears. I hear women around the restaurant chattering about “the kid” and then being very judgmental of the mom. It broke my heart. I wanted to scream… give her some grace…she’s doing her best. Truth is, I am not sure if she was doing her best or not, but the gift of forgiveness and grace is so rich and empowering. How different might things have been if one of the ladies offered to help the mom out?

I pray that when I am older and have kids who are teens or even out of the house, that I will remember what it was like to have little ones and feel stressed by their behavior. I hope that I do not judge, but offer a helping hand. Truly, the gift of forgiveness is a HUGE blessing to not only those around you, but also to YOU!